By: Valeria Sugar
April 8, 2020
This is the true sugar baby experience
It is becoming more common to see everywhere people who enjoy the sugar world, (by that I mean Sugar daddies, Sugar Mummies and Sugar babies), but in reality the question is, why is it increasingly accepted? It seems that the typical stereotypes of a conventional relationship are no longer popular, the mold of "sweaty little hand" relationships, courtship, compromise was broken, or perhaps, it was simply concluded that it was It is necessary to create a new type of romantic relationships, more modern according to the hasty times of today.
The only sure thing here is that times have changed, and with that, of course, ideas. The social advances throughout history have opened the guidelines to more progressive ideas where both women and men have the right to give an opinion, no one is more or less, therefore, the values have also been adapted to the new ones more equitable types of life; now a woman can demand as much as a man, she can express herself freely without being judged or despised, of course, there are still exceptions, we do not live in a pink bubble, but freedom of expression is increasingly accepted; a woman can now do things that were previously considered exclusive for men, and vice versa, now a man can do things that were previously exclusive to women; even, nowadays there are men who stay at home, taking care of the children and the home and it is the woman who goes to work, the roles are reversed, the role play changes completely, and this makes coexistence and family economy, she may earn more money than he does and that is why they come to such an agreement. Of course, there are still many people who live with expired ideas of male and female roles, which "should be" according to past times.
With situations like this, the taboo of what a man and a woman should or should not do is increasingly broken, and there is more room for the freedom to decide for what you want and not for what society imposes on you according to concepts of a few. All this leads to a peculiar theme: the sugar world. The women and men who decide to be part of this trend have their reasons very clear, and in every situation there is a story behind, more reasons, less reasons, are those that lead someone to make decisions that could change their lives for the better, such as it has been for most of the girls or boys who have given themselves the opportunity to opt for a sponsor.
Another aspect that possibly has given access to sugar relations is that as currently in the business world and labor rule of competitiveness prevails, people are almost bordered, so to speak, to work and strive hard to ensure their jobs or their businesses, therefore, do not leave much free time for interpersonal relationships, the time they have free they take advantage of in other things, for that reason the boom of social networks, where from the comfort of the house or office they can connect people without much effort, meet people, saving time to go out and carry out a laborious search for "objectives" to know and without detours.
Knowing people on the internet, basically you have become a necessity, has revolutionized our way of interacting due to our accelerated work or school lives, it is not a negative aspect as many paint it, as long as we do not lose the "face to face" aspect , we can take advantage of the internet tools to save time in knowing the ideal person with whom we want to share a relationship, but carrying it out is the main challenge. Throughout the world the same scenario is glimpsed, people with little time to meet people, opt for the internet, look for something specific, carry it out and thus satisfy the natural need to live with others, or also, are the golds and enviable cases of people who simply for pleasure, want to save the inconvenience of leaving home being able to meet people comfortably and taking the time from the apps to find the right person. There are people who are already retired or whose work allows them to have their time freely, what envy! Well, each person has their reasons why they use this or that method to meet like-minded people.
Those who take the opportunity to enjoy a sugary relationship, usually agree that a relationship of this style is more pleasant because they are not tied to a forced and annoying commitment, they feel the freedom to be who they are without having to pretend to be those who do not they are, they can do their daily activities without giving explanations to anyone, the fact of being able to enjoy their times without limitations, they save courtship, they save time at the beginning of the relationship, they can be clearer when they ask for what they want from the relationship, they reach agreements more easily, and endless benefits they have found in sugar relationships.
Some of the experiences that we have shared: "... John has been a very important person in my life since he financed part of my professional career and then gave me the money I needed to open my own boutique and that was the beginning, Fortunately, I already have more branches in other places, I am my own boss. I met him at the university, when in a university event several local businessmen were invited to give a chair on micro and macro companies, it was very unexpected, but both of us were left with arrows and that is how we started the relationship, he already had experience in this meaning, for me it was the first, and the last SD actually; but if you ask me, I do not regret anything, I have come to think that without him, it would have cost me a lot to achieve what I achieved in a short time, he was undoubtedly a key piece of my personal and professional success. I lived the best moments with him, I knew new places, new experiences, I even learned to give myself my own value as a person, I was very insecure before I knew him, but I learned that when you want something you must trust yourself, that it does not matter if person helps you achieve your dreams, it does not discredit your achievement; You can use the necessary means to achieve your goals, as long as you do not lose the goal, and in the journey, you can also enjoy, it is not true that you have to suffer to deserve ... "(Karla, 33 years old).
"... When I got divorced I tried other modes of unconventional relationships that were more pleasant and with less pressure, before it was not called as they do now; I met many girls so I have had a great time in these previous years and even today; It is very pleasant for me to enjoy my time with girls younger than me, they are very beautiful and they fill me with vitality, I feel very comfortable with young girls, I thought it was the best kind of relationships in life, there are claims of any kind, you do not have to give explanations ever, you can take the necessary time between each meeting without having to comply with a tight schedule against the clock. From the girls I remember I have very beautiful memories, I have helped many girls with their needs, and we both always win. I do not know what will happen to all of them at the moment, but the last thing I remember is that they all had their projects, and I was part of them, it was nice to help them achieve them, just as they helped me to spend magical moments. I'm not sure if at some point I'll have a formal relationship with a woman again, maybe, I do not know, but what I do know is that I really enjoy myself, in this way, and I do not change it for anything, today I'm a proud Sugar daddy, and I love ... "(Marco, 58 years old).
"... once you enter this game you understand many things that you did not understand before; I, for example, had friends who bragged about their feats with the older ladies, presumed how good they were with them, and their benefits, but it always seemed a little bad, I thought it was not right for a boy to get involved with a Older woman for her money, which was not right under any circumstances when a woman gives money to a man, but I believed that because I was wrong in my concepts. Fortunately I expanded my horizons, I gave myself the opportunity to experience it, I dared to take a relationship of this type; I was still a university student, and there came a time when I felt the need to find another source of income. I went exchange to another country, from the university, and being there in Australia, everything was fine, the drawback was that the scholarship did not cover some expenses that I needed to do, so I looked for a job, but since there they only allow you to work a certain number of hours a week in case of being a student, because I was limited, but for me great luck, I met Sarah. She was an independent woman, businesswoman, with a lot of money, it was a dream for any man, apart from being very beautiful, she was intelligent, an exceptional woman. We met at the restaurant where I worked as a waiter, for some reason she noticed my situation, I do not know if she had been watching me, I have no idea, but she came over to talk to me, and in between, we started to leave, and she offered to support me to cover the expenses that I needed to cover, I immediately told her that it was not necessary, but she explained to me about this type of relationship, I completely ignored it, then it was when I lost twenty of the things of the who boasted my friends, they meant this! I did not want to see myself very closed and I accepted, and the truth is that in my personal experience it was very nice to be able to experience it. I do not know what would have happened of not accepting Sarah's help, apart from that I learned a lot from her, nowadays we still greet each other from time to time through chat, I will always have her in a very high esteem ... "(Darío, 30 years old)
"... I am an adult woman, I have my own company, apart from the inheritance that my husband left for our divorce, I can enjoy my life already, as I please, I can say that I have done everything and I am still looking for new challenges, new adventures, I do not close anything. My children are already big and they are independent, I live alone but I am almost never at home because I spend my time traveling, I like to know new places, anyone who knows me knows that I am adventurous and I can not be still in the same place for a long time; In my adventures I can say that I give myself the luxury of spending my time with young people, children younger than me, they are a great company and I enjoy their company, even if it sounds ironic, I learn a lot from them, since we are from different times , both they and I have a lot to talk about and many things to teach us. The people who are close to me know about this, I have never been a hypocritical woman, I do not like the idea of having a double life, or a double standard, that is not for me, I think that when you have worked hard in the life and you have already won many battles you have the right and freedom to be yourself, limited by the "what they say" is something old, absurd and meaningless. I consider myself successful and very pretty for the age I have, so I use my virtues vánales; I currently have a splendid SB, I love him very much, he is very special to me, he is not the first, but he is especially unique, we met a year ago, and our relationship is as fresh as the first day; It makes me feel good to know that I can support him with the things he needs, he is about to graduate this year and it is cause for celebration for both of us, I have also been part of that triumph ... "(Beatriz, 47 years old).
The four testimonies above are only a tiny bit in a handful of experiences that occur worldwide, the reasons are over, but all agree that they would do it again, it is worth taking a free and happy relationship with a person. What are you waiting for to dare?