By: Sandra May 4, 2020
sugary world told by sugar babies
The sugary world told by a sugar baby
It is no secret to anyone that money moves the world, but what are we willing to do in order to live a life full of luxuries? Or to be able to make ends meet without problems. Well, this need is the one that arises for many girls and the one that leads them to become sugar babies ( SB ) an increasingly rising phenomenon since it has several pages dedicated to sugar dating that report having millions of users, more than 20 million to say for the most used application in this area.
Such is the case of a 22-year-old Mexican sugar baby named María Fernanda with an extensive track record in sugar baby / sugar daddy relationships who tells us some of her reasons for joining and experiences within the sugar community
"I was always attracted to mature men and if they were mature with money I liked one more"
When I entered the university, I began to notice that the expenses were exceeding me and that it was difficult for me and my parents to pay them so I decided to look for a part-time job, but really the salaries were very low and that's when my best friend I speak of several websites where I could find a sugar daddy and thus being able to pay some expenses was how I became a sugar baby. The idea of dating older men did not dislike me at all in fact it was something very exciting to just think about it, my first date was with a 45-year-old lawyer named Felipe. We spent a very fun night with a delicious dinner, a nice talk, the Chemistry between two was immediate and if they asked we had no sex ... at least not that night and not for the next 4 appointments to a so he provided me with cash and seeing us was always in very nice places (laughs) were really moments nice.
But what for María Fernanda means fun and economic stability for many other people means sweetened prostitution, something very similar to an escort to whom María Fernanda does not agree with this definition.
I am not an escort or prostitute the sugar babies we have a commercial contract with our sugar daddies is something very discreet; You know it is not something that everyone has to find out, that is why every first contact is given through the Internet where you have your sugar baby profile that is a profile completely separate from your real life if so you want it. "Discretion is always good for both parties"
And is there a trick when it comes to finding a sugar daddy? - A trick as such I do not know because each sugar daddy is clear about what he likes and is clear about what he is looking for but it never hurts to take care of you and always try to see you well, exercise, be flirtatious with your makeup and maybe be a plus if you have a slightly `` childish '' appearance like me that I look smaller than I really am, this attracts them is a very recurring fantasy in them I know because they have told me, most sugar daddies do not seek A prostitute is looking for normal girls, another thing that could be a trick perhaps is the attitude but that is something obvious they are looking for cheerful, jovial girls, who enjoy life.
For María Fernanda becoming a sugar baby is an easy to understand exchange and one that is not something that she discards 100% she does not look for in her sugar daddy the man with whom she will share the rest of her life she prefers to keep feelings out of this' 'Commercial contract"
-Since I started dating my sugar daddies I have always been clear that it is temporary, which is something that will end at some point because in this world there is a lot of competition and the sugar daddies in terms of numbers are less than sugar babies, so imagine if they can and will not only be with a sugar baby and I do not think they are looking to fall in love, it is better to enjoy the benefits and when it ends without any problem look for another, this is it!
But speaking of how real are the benefits you get from just providing company, it would be hard to believe that these mature and successful men are willing to give all kinds of luxuries and whims in exchange for the only company, so ask how frequent sex is in this type of agreements is a must.
-The sex is something that is, that is present but is not mandatory I have dated at least 6 men and I have not had sexual relations with all of them I have done it with whom I have wanted and as for what I get depending on the agreement and whether I include sex or I can't tell you that I have made trips to different places in the country the best of them was a trip to Cancun, I have been to super nice restaurants and I can pay my university expenses without any problem, If we talk about figures I could tell you that I normally receive $ 5000 to $ 8000 pesos for spending a weekend or making a trip with my sugar daddy and this does not include the gifts he can give me, he gives me expensive perfumes, a dress, and chocolates.
From $ 5000 to $ 8,000 pesos on average in what María Fernanda says a university student can receive for sharing her time and sometimes her body with her sugar daddy, this is certainly more than what she could receive in a part-time job and one that she knows about the risks that this practice could imply ensures that she will continue to do so at least until she can finish her university studies and that her economic situation improves allowing her to live a life comfortably.
-I know that there are risks but I do not think they are different from the risks to which we are all exposed regularly either on the Internet or when going out with friends for a drink on a Friday night, it is good to be cautious and sometimes pay attention to sixth sense that tells you that something is wrong but let's go! This is a business and all businesses involve some risk.
María Fernanda smiles when she says the latter.
My debut as sugar baby
Every time you hear the term sugar baby, what is the first thing that comes to mind? - An attractive university girl who does not have enough money to pay her tuition ... it's the classic thing! But no, I was not that girl because I had the support of my parents who fully complied with paying everything related to my education to what led me to look for a sugar daddy was the ambition and excitement that caused me to think that there was a man of my age or my grandfather's willingness to pay me to spend time with him, a man willing to be my daddy "and to fulfill all my whims because although my economic situation was not tight I did not enjoy great luxuries and the 23 years what you want are experiences and enjoy to the fullest.
About a day or two from creating the account and receiving some messages from sugar daddies showing me his interest I found a man named Benjamin and until that moment he was the best prospect I had found since in the photos he showed on his profile I could see that He was quite attractive, he knew that he was 38 years old that he was of American nationality and that he had quit his job to dedicate himself to travel the world, that he had already been in Italy, Spain, Panama, Colombia and his next destination was Mexico and of course I was looking for a pretty girl with whom to share good moments during your instance. There was the perfect opportunity! I had it right in front of me there was only one problem and that was that I was dying of fear if,
The expected day arrived and there I was on a plane with my sugar daddy whom I had barely met a couple of days ago I honestly remember praying as never before asking God to please keep me safe finally we landed at the airport of Merida, Yucatan Mexico and this is where I really became officially a sugar baby, Benjamin was attentive to me the trip started great our first hotel was very nice but the reservation only included one room, so if Benjamin and I would sleep together and one that from the beginning I knew that this type of treatment in the end was very likely to include sex because being honest if a sugar daddy pays for everything and treats you as a princess at some point he will want to receive a reward for it.
Benjamin was very handsome and we had a very strong attraction between us so I got carried away and determined to be a great sugar baby with all that that implies, we did it in an impressive way and this did not change during the whole trip he seemed delighted with his new sugar baby and I was allowing myself to pamper, we toured the state of Yucatan knowing the Mayan ruins that are there and then culminated in Tulum, Quintana Roo there we stayed the last 2 nights and it was the perfect end we spent the day in a club of beach drinking cocktails and in the afternoon we had dinner in a spectacular restaurant of Lebanese food of course during the whole trip I was posting on Instagram incredible photographs that I bet caused envy in many of my companions,which were miles away wondering how he was in the Caribbean vacationing at the beginning of the semester
At the end of the trip I received $ 8,000 pesos in cash as a gift from my sugar daddy whom I continue to see for approximately 3 more months since this was the time that Benjamin stayed in my city taking classes to improve his Spanish and to which we now only greet each other sporadically Benjamin was just the beginning of my new life as a sugar baby .
Love is not part of the agreement
My name is Ximena and my life is not very different from that of any other girl, I am 24 years old, I studied the nutrition career, I like to go out dancing with my friends on the weekends, also go shopping as you can see anything outside Of the common thing if it wasn't because for just over a year I became the sugar baby of a 49-year-old man and unlike many sugar babies I didn't decide to go into this only to receive gifts and cash, actually I did it because I was in At a time when I wanted to feel “loved” and desired by someone, about 2 years had passed since my last relationship with a boy from my faculty and with whom things did not turn out well, that's how I got to a sugar page datingand so far I have tried to reach an arrangement with 3 men at three I explained that while I was interested in receiving gifts, dinners and cash it was important for me to find a man with whom there really was a connection, I know it would not be such as a boyfriend but I am not looking for someone to date me at a hotel with sex and goodbye at first it did not seem such a good idea that I had since he was a married man and in no way could he afford to be seen with a girl who could his daughter be anywhere and under no circumstances, the second simply left me planted in a bar and disappeared, I never heard from him again.
But as they say, the third one is the defeated one and if that was the third, Rafael was a man who had a company dedicated to construction, with an impressive, educated, fun class that made me feel like his baby and the best thing is that He was a completely free man, he had never been married or something, he had no girlfriend and I could not believe that he had really found my sugar daddy dreamed not only because he was very handsome but because he was always aware of my financial needs and he liked to make me gifts very often which went from lingerie, perfumes,romantic dinners or weekends at home in which there was no one but us 2 but like everything else in this world that dream relationship did not last forever and one that currently we are still together our appointments have begun to not be so hot as I suppose this is because Rafael is a man too independent and accustomed to being alone that after some time any relationship he had became monotonous and I think that for him even somewhat boring, that would explain why he was on a page of sugar babies to begin with, this experience with Rafael made me reflect a little if love can be possible in this type of relationship and I think that maybe you can get to give a loving relationship that does not depend solely on receiving some economic benefit or gifts,that you are with the person for the sole desire to be with her but maybe Rafael is not the right man to be able to prove this theory after all he seems to be very pleased in his world of sugar babies in the meantime I will continue with him until some of The two finally decide otherwise.
Once I tried how sweet it is to have become a sugar baby I am convinced that I love being pampered and wanted so I do not think to return to traditional relationships for a good time, that I also learned that I should be more cautious and not start To fall in love with my sugar daddy I just have to enjoy the good times they give me remembering that they are with sugar babies for a reason and that the most normal thing in the world is that that reason is not precisely why they are looking to find the love of their Life in any of them.If you have questions or comments, please contact us .