By: Valeria Sugar April 8, 2020
My first experience in the world of sugar babies
I met Nick 5 months ago and so far I can say that I love the Sugar Baby experience. My name is Ela and I am 28 years old. I do not have an extravagant life, I really consider myself a pretty normal girl. I like to concentrate on my professional plans, but I also like to have fun once in a while. Adding a little emotion to everyday life can always bring good results.
If I had been told a year ago that I would have a Sugar Daddy, I would never have believed it. Moreover, I did not even know that there were special platforms to find the right man. But life goes around a lot and you never have to say it.
One day I saw a story about the relationship between Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies, I thought it was funny and a little strange in the report appeared three couples each had different agreements, but what really caught my attention is that they all led a life of more normal. All had jobs and normal professions were ordinary people like me, or people like the one I knew. So the taboo vanished and the whole concept turned out to be very interesting for me. It definitely woke up my curiosity.
I decided to create a profile to find my perfect Sugar Daddy. I found a platform that convinced me, I made a profile, I chose some of my best photos and I described the best I could not know if it was going to be, I was still very skeptical, but at least I was having fun in the attempt there were many profiles, men of all kinds and with very diverse interests.
As I said, I'm a girl with a pretty quiet life. I love to exercise, read, go to the movies, cook, and go out once in a while. So my ideal Sugar Daddy must be someone with whom I could share my hobbies, as well as other more intimate things. For me, chemistry was indispensable. I was not willing to go out with any man just for a good economic arrangement. I wanted something real and above all very honest in the end, a good agreement is based on trust.
Many days passed, maybe a month or more I still did not find anything that convinced me I had talked with several men, but I felt that we did not have things in common, some others just wanted sexual encounters. I was looking for a good arrangement without the commitments of a relationship, but with the benefits of a Sugar Daddy, a win-win relationship. All clear and without dramas.
Suddenly I found a profile that immediately caught my attention Nick 40 years old lover of coffee, gastronomy and literature white skin, black hair, perfect beard and a very elegant Panamanian hat. Nick was all my type and with his photos and description, I instantly knew that he could have much in common with him. We started to exchange messages he said he was looking for someone to go out to dinner with, have a drink, talk and of course have intimate encounters, for my part, I was also looking for the same.
Nick's profile said that he loved cocktails, so in less than three days we were already in a famous mixology bar in Colonia Roma. I remember that minutes before our meeting I was very nervous. However, the night went by very naturally. Nick was very nice and a great conversationalist we talked about many things, about his life, about mine, he told me that he was from Chicago, but for his work he came every month to Mexico City we had a great time that night and although the appointment was only to know us, I felt very comfortable to accompany him to his apartment. Our agreement had just been inaugurated and Nick at all times behaved like a gentleman.
I was aware that I could get a better economic benefit with another candidate, but I was looking for someone that I really liked and Nick really won me over.
Our next appointment was only four days after our first meeting we had even better, we were in the south of the city for dinner and then we saw a movie in his apartment. Of course things went up a little bit and we had an excellent time, we really have a lot of chemistry inside and outside the bedroom.
So far our agreement by appointment works great we see you approximately three or four times a month and we are in constant contact with WhatsApp. Although that is not part of the agreement, we really want to know about each other over time he knows more about my life and I know about his, but we have no commitment or exclusivity.
I really believe that what makes our arrangement work so well is the chemistry that really exists between the two, and above all the clarity of what we are willing to give and what we want to receive. We are excited to enjoy time together and although we are both aware that our relationship is not conventional, we know that it is honest and true. The chemistry between us is very strong, and our economic arrangement serves to keep some distance.
Definitely this experience has helped me a lot to appreciate the honesty, it is amazing when you stop waiting for things from someone and you concentrate only on enjoying the moments that are part of the agreement. If the arrangement is based on real chemistry, the details and gifts come naturally. All the agreements are different, but as long as you let yourself be pampered and you dare to spoil your Sugar Daddy, the experience will always surprise you.