By: Valeria Sugar April 2, 2020
My experience as a sugar baby
Four years ago I sail among the sweet sugar stories; I made this act my way of life, I live for it basically and I do not imagine it could be otherwise, surely you who read me ask yourself how is it possible to carry it out so easily? I think maybe the secret is knowing how to enjoy it, knowing how to live the moment without asking for more, and making special moments a mental escape, knowing how to deliver those special men who only look for the same as you, quality company. I still remember my first experience as if it were yesterday.
It was a day like any other, I had to do the pantry and as usual, as every Tuesday I went shopping, it was a department store, I was in the hall of flours and wheats deciding what cereal to buy this time, when I suddenly felt the look of a man, turning the above was exposed and try to hide, but I had already "caught in the move", and we smiled, but it was not something important, I continued with mine. When we reached the box we ran again and smiled again, he was in the next row waiting to pay for their products. We left almost at the same time, when I got to my car, which I had left parked near the door, I was finished getting the pantry to the car and this man spoke to me, "Miss, apologize for the outburst, but I wanted to show my admiration to see that in spite of leaving alone to make the pantry, it is arranged and looks beautiful, that does not lose the glamor, called my attention for it-, I am tenderly caused by your observation, and I thanked him for his words, but I did not say much more conversation, I turned and opened the door of my car, put my things and before getting into the car, he said, "I give my card, if someday I have the luck and honor to receive your call I will be happy to invite you to leave. I thanked him and started. I threw the card in the passenger seat, I really did not give it any importance.
When I arrived at my house I put my pantry in the cupboard and continued with my life, I did not remember this man until one or two months after that day. I remember this day because it was fateful for me, when my boyfriend, then and I ended, of those days that you wish would never have been, a frightful break indeed, because of an infidelity; it turns out that I found my boyfriend with my best friend, both were leaving a very affectionate motel both, in his car, the rest you know does not end well, these stories never have a happy ending, they win, I lose, or maybe, that's what I thought at that moment, then I understood that sooner or later that would happen, that's life. I cried a month I guess, I was sad and my other friends tried to cheer me up, on one of those occasions that tried to brighten my day we got ready to go out, it was Saturday night, a nice and cool night in Tijuana, who are from Tijuana know what I mean, a summer night with pleasant weather.
We were already in the room when suddenly I saw my ex with my ex friend both happy, enjoying the party very removed from the pain, I confess that I felt anger and disillusionment at the same time, I do not know, a shock of very unpleasant and unbearable emotions , I collapsed almost completely, (bad idea to frequent the same places where you went with your ex). I went out to the terrace, I needed fresh air and for some strange reason I remembered the kind and tender guy who had approached me at the supermarket a month or two ago, I remembered that he gave me a card, but I did not know where he had put it, I really wanted to call him and ask him to praise me as he did that day, I needed to be noticed by someone of the opposite sex, urgently raise my self-esteem. I do not know if something similar has happened to you, that you need to be noticed by someone, to feel pretty, I know you do, I do not know a woman who is not a bit vain (ha ha).
So I left the dive, got into my car and drove to a restaurant that opens 24 hours on weekends, before getting off the car I looked for the card, for my luck, I'm a little messy, so I had not done cleaning in the car and for that reason I found the famous card, I got off the car, I went in and I sat at a table next to the wall, the place was not very crowded; I asked for a soda and while I saw the card and played it between my fingers, I took courage and dialed the phone number, the ring-ring rang on that side of the line but nobody answered, I left a message in the voicemail, I think it's weird the person who listens to the voice messages, so I ventured and told him my situation, hoping he would not hear it, I laugh a little remembering this, I think it might have sounded a bit pathetic now that I think. I felt better after having taken all the pessimistic emotion out of my heart, I finished my soda and went home. I slept very peacefully that Saturday night.
The next morning, around 9 am, my cell phone rang, I answered drowsy, it was him! He was the tender and kind gentleman of the supermarket. He greeted me with his sweet voice that characterizes him and told me he was too beautiful to feel, just as I felt, I peeled my eyes immediately upon hearing what he said! I knew that I had heard my voice message. Who the hell in this millennial age hears his call box? Sure, someone who is not from this era! (hahaha) I greeted him, I apologized for the audacity, I told him that I was a little drunk last night and that hey, he listened to my message, he was not very emotional and quickly told me that I did not have to apologize for anything, that the best we could do was to see each other and talk if that was what I needed; The truth is that I liked the idea of going out and talking with someone strange and alien to my daily life, sometimes friends give you the reason and you just want to talk and not receive advice or anything similar, just listen to you.
I felt a great emotion knowing that I would see someone new in my life, I wanted to feel wanted by a man, and apart from being nice the man seemed very handsome, it is what I remember, besides, he gave the impression of being an important figure and good taste, that's why I felt flattered, I had a good feeling that something positive could result from that meeting, and definitely, I was not wrong. We met at a cafe very close to my house, he arrived very punctual and it was nice to say hello, it was not planned, but everything went very well, and I felt very resplendent. We chatted and he was a very special person for me that day, I liked meeting him, we stayed to see each other again, they spent at least five encounters before making love, I think I fell in love with him on coffee day, but due to my situation sentimental of that time, I did not want to give importance and I thought I was confused and wanted an escape to forget my ex, then I learned to recognize that this merit was his alone, since it was impossible not to fall in love with Faust, he was the man most incredibly nice and nice that I had known, I guess it came right at the best time, I was already free to enjoy it when we frequented. In that first meeting he gave me a Channel perfume, he gave it to me when we said goodbye, he told me that everyone who used that fragrance would remember it and that was the idea.
Always, in each meeting I gave a present, always with such beautiful details that it was impossible not to fall into his arms, it was not the material aspect that captivated me, it was the way he gave me things, always so creative and enhancing my existence, I have not met man more attentive than him, he is not pretentious or pedantic, he is simply unique, nothing pretended. Our relationship was taking place slowly and so 2 years passed. Those two years were all full of sweetness, he took me everywhere, we went on a trip every weekend, he was married, but that was never a problem, I loved him every day of our relationship, we quickly understood how this was, there was more than the commitment to enjoy the moment, to enjoy ourselves and that was what kept the flame burning forever; because he was an independent man with his own company and enjoyed the freedom of his time, so we could escape every weekend where no one knew us, free and happy, to explore the most exotic beaches you can imagine; We shared a lot of time, and he gave me money every week, that was an extra, I really believe that if he had not given me money or gifts I would have been with him just for his attitude, he made me feel very special, he raised me to a level that I I did not know; I learned a lot with him, also thanks to him I decided to finish my career that had left truncated and he paid me all year that I needed the race. Faustus will always be in my heart, and to think that it was in a shopping center where I met him, sometimes I do not believe it.
As I told you, he was just the first of others, that's how I entered the sugar world and I knew the great value that this represents, after a failed relationship I realized that this mode of relationships is much better, you do not more than enjoying the side of a person who wants to consent, who can refuse this! So far it has worked wonders for me, I do not find satisfaction in a relationship where I happen to be the shadow of a macho boy or that does not value me and that very surely is unfaithful, on the contrary, with a daddy we both know that this what we are doing is for pleasure, that we can even continue enjoying our lives, of freedom without having ties or limits, that it is about enjoying together part of life in mutual company, at times. But, if you ask me, the more things you give of yourself, the more you receive from them. It is not just about receiving with open hands and closing to offer of you, look, both parties should benefit.
Hoping that my experience will be of some use to you, I learned in these years as SB that simple and simple things are important too, for example, if that day that Faust put his eyes on me, it was because I made myself noticed; You must stand out from the rest, be beautiful we can all, remember that "there is no ugly woman, only badly groomed". They look for the company, generally, of feminine girls, beautiful and young, it is not only about vanity, but that is a tool that you can exploit in your favor, at least it worked for me. Having a passport could be very useful also because they suddenly want to go on a trip with you, put those papers and your visa in order, they do not hurt, believe me you will thank me one day if it is so, when I was with Faust I did it and although I did not go abroad with him, I did it with my next daddies, to date it has been very useful for me.
Another aspect to consider, is that you should dedicate time to meetings with your SD, disinhibiting is a good start, do not seem forced but on the contrary, if he sees that you enjoy spending time with him for sure he will seek to give you his valuable time, take you walk, and many other things, make it feel important, and be feminine always; I do not know what your case is, but if you dare to live the experience take into account these tips of a SB, these years in the middle have not been in vain. Time is relative, whether months or years, take advantage and make it happy at the same time you are too; Many positive experiences will take you only for you, you'll even have anecdotes to tell your grandchildren if you ever have them. Anyway, I think I have not known any SB to complain about this, but many good stories, each person is different and in their way they live it, this is mine, what is yours?