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By: Valeria Sugar April 8, 2020

Living My Best Life

Today is one of those days where I feel amazingly happy and I will like to share my experience as a Sugar Baby with the entire world. My name is Samira, I am 20 years old and at my short age, I feel like I am starting off with the right foot, living just as I had dreamed.

My life started to get better since I became a cheerleader for a famous baseball team in a border state, (I prefer to keep certain anonymity, in consideration to my Sugar Daddy) ever since I started working in this area, my opportunities have expanded in many areas. There is no doubt that we live in a materialistic and superficial society, and although I do not agree with this, I cannot lose the opportunities that come to me.

I just recently lived with my parents, I had always been a good girl and I asked for permission for everything. I had become friends with a girl from work, another cheerleader and escort, until one day she decided to reveal my secrets and weaknesses to the other girls, I was cannon fodder, they ate me alive. But I was able to recover from that blow, and I became just like them or maybe worse, you must know how to get around in that ambient, it is full of envies and hypocrisy. It could be that you are a good person, but you must learn to give the first punch, know how to deal with banal people.

As to my performance as a cheerleader I can say that I do it as best as I can, always. So much that I have fans displaying my name on posters while I perform at games, men, and women, I am not only appreciated by the opposite sex. But of all those beautiful people someone very particularly special stands out; my great and adorable Sugar Daddy.

The conquest process and his incredible personality make our agreement more than perfect. 7 months ago, he was just a kind and unknown man who caused me some dislike. At first, I took his compliments in a bad way. But unsurprisingly, he knew how to catch my attention. He would always send me a bouquet of roses to the dressing room, with a note full of sweet words that seemed invasive to me, or very harassing to some extent. I always asked who that person was, but he wanted to remain anonymous for at least a month before allowing me to put a face on that faithful flatterer.

After so many bouquets of roses and so many beautiful words, I began to take a slight affection for that secret admirer. Every time I received the bouquet of roses, I couldn't help but draw a huge smile on my face. And it is very possible that he noticed my appreciation for his details.

Because it was not long after he had me smiling with his details that he decided to come face to face with me. What a surprise that was! He was a man around 50 years old. Although he is handsome and has a good bearing, I never imagined that this admirer would be so much older than me. And I must confess that I felt a slight disappointment but fortunately it was quickly dissipated by his charm as a person. That makes a woman easily forget about age.

I remember being a bit rude when he asked me out for the first time, I responded very indifferent and left him feeling little hope that anything would happen between us. But he was very patient. 2 weeks passed and he asked again, but during this time he remained the same sweet and charming man. In the meantime, I was making plans to go out with a young handsome boy, he was what I had dreamed of, but he turned out to be such a disappointment, he was a complete jerk. I was rescued from the clutches of ignorance and conformism by my adorable Alfonso.

I only dated the jerk boy once and after that I figured that I had nothing to lose by dating the kind man who after all made me feel great and always made me smile, I think it's the best decision I could have made, just at the right moment. He invited me to dinner at a genuinely nice place and we also had an incredibly delicious dinner. Coming out of a baseball game, we were celebrating that our team had won. On that occasion I was able to appreciate the difference between dating a little man jerk and dating a man to the full extent of the word, a true gentleman, one of those men who are very rare today. A beautiful unicorn!

I thought a lot about him since that dinner, I wanted to see him again, I wanted to feel the way I felt with him again, as special as he made me feel, considered, admired by someone, all that and more. It was something very much like an obsession. I was surprised myself to know how it was possible that this man had achieved his objective, he had me eating out of his hand.

And I think his persistence was somewhat, a little sweet and tender. I was suddenly able to appreciate that the emotions of a person like him can easily overthrow the physical beauty of a young man my age, who basically has nothing else to offer, on the other hand my Alfonso, has many things to offer and one of them, Money! I don't know if it's the money or that he really is a sweetheart. But I feel in the clouds with him.

On our second outing together, he gave me one of the most beautiful surprises I could imagine, we were on the hood of his car in a viewpoint of Ensenada, contemplating the sea, by the way it was a beautiful day with a completely blue sky, clear of clouds, when suddenly, a small plane of those that write messages in the sky, passed by leaving the message: My princess <3. He told me, you are my beautiful princess and other beautiful things that he told me at that moment, I know it may seem too soon that we referred to each other with sweet words after our second outing.

But he had been trying to conquer me for some time and that counts, it was when "it clicked" that this was getting more and more interesting, besides, he had been in my thoughts for a short time, because with every detail he was catching my attention a lot more and, in addition, my love and consideration. It was the first time I allowed me the opportunity to be with someone older than me. And I think I did well, because since I started seeing him, things have started to go better in my life.

On the third date he took me out on his yacht to the open sea, and to my great surprise, we managed to see a whale, it is a very famous event in Ensenada, so every year hundreds of people pay to be taken to the open sea to see the whales, and you are not always lucky enough to see them, they can go hours without seeing a single whale, but it seemed like a cosmic sign, luck was on my side, everything was perfect and I got that beautiful view with quality company , while I was drinking a delicious wine that he bought me in a vineyard in Valle de Guadalupe, because before heading to the sea, we went to a wine and cheese tasting, which by the way, has been completely new to me.

I pretended to be knowledgeable, just like him, and in an act of shame he discovered my intentions, he showed me but in a friendly way, he told me: princess you don't have to pretend to know something, you only have to be yourself with me, I like you as you are, if there is something you don’t know, you will learn and that does not make you less intelligent or stupid, it is wise to ask. He made me feel comfortable with that comment, because I did feel, a little out of place, at a disadvantage for not knowing as much as he did. And boy I have learned many things at his side.

The fourth time I met him, he took me to Los Cabos, I had always wanted to go there, and I was amazed by the sea and the people, everything is magnificent on that part of the world. We slept in separate rooms, he always knew how to respect me from the beginning, my modesty was always safe by his side, he did not suggest anything sexual to me at any time, I am not saying he is a saint, but his patience is a good technique to make a woman choose the right moment to get intimate with him, because he is so gentle and sweet that anyone wants to have him in bed without holding back. It makes you think that this is how you will be treated in the sexual act and besides that being tender, it’s sexy. I wasn't wrong about that with him either.

I pretended to be knowledgeable, just like him, and in an act of shame he discovered my intentions, he showed me but in a friendly way, he told me: princess you don't have to pretend to know something, you only have to be yourself with me, I like you as you are, if there is something you don’t know, you will learn and that does not make you less intelligent or stupid, it is wise to ask. He made me feel comfortable with that comment, because I did feel, a little out of place, at a disadvantage for not knowing as much as he did. And boy I have learned many things at his side.

The fourth time I met him, he took me to Los Cabos, I had always wanted to go there, and I was amazed by the sea and the people, everything is magnificent on that part of the world. We slept in separate rooms, he always knew how to respect me from the beginning, my modesty was always safe by his side, he did not suggest anything sexual to me at any time, I am not saying he is a saint, but his patience is a good technique to make a woman choose the right moment to get intimate with him, because he is so gentle and sweet that anyone wants to have him in bed without holding back. It makes you think that this is how you will be treated in the sexual act and besides that being tender, it’s sexy. I wasn't wrong about that with him either.

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We spent a weekend in that oceanic Eden, I rented a very modest apartment, at a very ugly location, nothing nice, and I was short of money, my job is good, but living alone is complicated, sometimes the money is not enough to treat yourself and in my work environment image is everything. And with Alfonso all that was solved. From that trip in Los Cabos came the opportunity to reach an agreement, he proposed me to be his Sugar Baby officially, I have a friend who is part of this, and I know what it is about, even so it would never have occurred to me, and I quickly liked the idea, because I know that there are many benefits in the Sugar world, mainly in the economic aspect.

When he proposed it to me, he wanted me to give him exclusivity, I didn't see this badly, if I could enjoy what he offered me, and of course I was certain that I had a lot to win, just by looking around and seeing where I was at the time, I could not miss that opportunity. How they well say, it fit like a glove.

I did not want to be untimely, although he is an extraordinary man, I did not want to ask him if he would also give me exclusivity, I also did not want him to think that I would be a possessive girl who would cause him problems, so I tried to take my role very seriously from the first moment the agreement was declared official.

That magical weekend ended, and we returned to our busy border city, in a relaxed flight, we said goodbye and at that moment, he gave me an envelope that contained 10,000 pesos. When I saw the figure, I was shocked, it was basically what I made in almost a month and receiving that amount of money in one minute was incredibly great. He told me: this is the beginning of something that can be either particularly good or awfully bad, that's up to you my princess.

I would like to tell you that I invested that money in something productive, or that I paid important things, but it was not like that, honestly, I got carried away by the emotion of the moment and I went crazy with the shopping. I went on “shopping sprees” I bought everything I wanted and did not skimp on prices.

I thought I saw it as an investment to my image, to look prettier for my new Sugar Daddy, but between us, it was vanity justifying my lack of control. I verified that those who say that there is no better therapy than to go shopping are right, I felt it, that pleasure you get when you put on the shoes that you liked and take them with you. That beautiful blouse or those pants that stylize your buttocks. The beautiful and expensive clothes that you wanted to buy for a long time but could not. That day I broke the mold with my home economy! There was no regret.

The next time I saw him, was about 5 days later. He gave me another similar amount of money. But of course, by this second economic issuance, I knew that I should save. And since then, I do indulge myself from time to time. But I recently moved to a better place. He pays for it, but he still gives me my money, and I have gone back to the university that I had put on hold for a while. I see my SD approximately every three days, and it is always pleasant to meet him, recently I am contemplating processing my visa, if I obtain it, the trips will get better and better with him.

New experiences, new horizons, everything looks good. I use the money he gives me to pay my tuition, and I save the rest, because besides this, I continue to work as a cheerleader and fortunately he supports me with that, he knows that I respect him and although this medium is frivolous, he trusts me. I'm just 20 years old and I want to make the most of this new money-making opportunity.

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