By: Valeria Sugar April 8, 2020
Analysis of the “Sugar daddy and Sugar baby” phenomenon
The sugar daddy / sugar baby phenomenon could have a scientific explanation
When choosing a romantic partner, there are a number of reasons that lead us to choose this or that person, this time, we want to understand a little more about the reasons that give rise to relationships between the very popular Sugar daddies and Sugar babies.
Why are there a large majority of older men who prefer younger girls? Why are there young girls who prefer older men than they? Well, let's see if there is any science behind these choices.
On the masculine side, after a search on the subject, we found that, in different studies, the same constant is found, men prefer younger women since they are more fertile, and this way the species is preserved, it sounds very primitive! true? Let's not forget that, finally, we are beings dominated by primitive nature on many occasions, no matter how much urbanization surrounds us, of course, you do not say to your brain: we are going to select the youngest girl to preserve the species -uh ha uh ha-. No! This behavior occurs instinctively.
And there is still more...
We see that Biology does play an important role in making men feel attracted to younger women, who unconsciously select the "female" who promises to be more "useful" for procreation and who, of that So your genes will reproduce, once again, the survival of the fittest. (nature does not stop surprising). According to the preferred age of men, when it comes to choosing their girls, it ranges between 21 to 25 years, of course, there are variants, but that is the favorite intermediate, no matter how old they are, but according to what they believe, in At, that age women are neither very mature nor very immature, they are in a more neutral mental status, and they are to a certain extent more open to experimenting without so many buts, and ultimately they are looking for fun.
Why are there young girls who prefer older men than them?
On the other hand, we find that women, according to various studies, conclude that they prefer, although a man of the same age, mostly, men who exceed their age, because they find mental equality, it is well known that, the female brain has a greater reorganization of neural connections than the male brain, therefore, they feel at the same emotional and mental level as an older man, (but that explanation could be given in another article).
Now, another curious fact that we found was that according to a particular study, carried out by a group of biologists from McMaster University, men are the cause of menopause, yes, yes, as well as what you read! Well, according to this study, it is explained that menopause is a natural consequence given by the scarcity of men's choice for older women, from the age of 45, which is when this hormonal change normally begins in women. ; in other words, in the evolutionary process that we continue to carry out, that which never stops, the female body has understood that the fertile time ends at 45 years old; This is only a theory, it should be clarified, but it does not sound so illogical after all.
We have than that, science can explain the reason that gives rise to the phenomenon sugar baby and sugar daddy, since men want young girls because they see in them, unconsciously, the potential of life, fertility in other words and that is attractive to the primitive man who is hidden under an elegant suit; and that women prefer older men because they identify with mental maturity than with boys of their age who may well pass as 15-year-old boys due to their immaturity, and this, definitely is not attractive to any woman, nor that were babysitters!
Of course, these scientific explanations are not entirely conclusive, but they are closer to reality, and they try to give us a broad panorama to understand, on a scientific basis, our behavior when it comes to romance (something that no one escapes ).
After the aforementioned, let's leave the formalities that science encompasses, and move on to what our own experience and common sense dictates us in this area
We set out to question 50 mature men and our conclusions were as follows:
- A young woman is full of energy and vitality, they think they are more willing to do new things, they are in a better mood for jokes and leisure, they do not occupy their thoughts with worries and they are concentrated in the moment without ruining it. , they just make them feel like children and with it they manage to forget, for a vague moment, their reality and it is something they enjoy, almost addictively.
- According to them, most of the girls do not take a relationship of this type very seriously, and that makes things easier for them, because ultimately, they do not look for commitments, and feel that they are in tune, both they know what they want in this sense, just fun and have memorable moments, but without having something serious, beyond the bounds of a formal relationship, which involves more people, instead, they can take these encounters lightly, capitalize on both sides and voila! Be careful here, with this they do not mean that they do not take a girl seriously, rather, they believe that they are mature enough to live a sporadic relationship, happily, without claiming anything more than that.
- They are easy to please, because they are less experienced in every way, to some extent they are sometimes easy to impress And that pleases them because it still makes them feel "powerful", on the contrary, with a mature woman they do not achieve the same effect, and they do not easily impress her as a girl, a situation that makes it more difficult for them to please them, something that It causes them a little more stress and this is something they avoid without thinking twice.
- The charismatic attitude of the jovial girls and the adrenaline that they constantly experience after each encounter makes them feel vigorous and also plays an important role in the ego of men.
- It seems that younger girls accept the role of "sugar babies" very well, that they do not demand more than they can give, and this makes them somewhat calm, in the sense that, if they are married or have a very “respectable” life in the eyes of everyone, they can maintain their identity of “good Samaritan” without complications, the status of the casual relationship in anonymity is a plus for young girls, because most of them know behaving on the sidelines, even if it is hard to believe, is like that.
Reasons are plenty, but the previous ones were the most highlighted.
Why do girls prefer older men? We interviewed the same number of women and our conclusions were as follows:
- Older men are more mature, according to them, so they feel more understood and feel that they can chat more about any topic and be taken into account when giving their opinions; That acclaimed maturity is also appealing to them, which has an almost immediate crush effect, according to most girls.
- Economic stability plays an important role since older people usually have the independence and economic facilities to buy everything they want, to travel when they want and to do many things with the freedom of not worrying about money, which is why the girls obviously look for a Sugar daddy, so that they can provide him with all the facilities that only money can give. And curiously, this fact of not thinking about how much you spend, as well as thinking about how much fun it is, seems to also have in addition the security of the girl who enjoys these benefits, the self-confidence they experience is priceless
- From an older man they can learn basic things that can later serve them in everyday life, as well as more opportunities to meet the outside world, or even certain benefits like influences, whether it helps you get a job because you know an important person, to name an example. Mature men are influential and wealthy, not all of course, but at least the sugar daddies in which our girls have their sights, yes they are, and that even seems exciting to them, Good word, that leads us to the other part, ( the funniest on the list).
- Sex is so much better! 80% of the respondents revealed that they prefer to share sexuality with mature men because they know more when it comes to pleasing a woman under the covers, they do not shy away from as with a boy their age or younger, they have more experience, without a doubt And that makes them feel like they play in the big leagues.
The other minority of girls prefer young people because they feel less intimidated than with an already experienced person, apart they comment that, in their experiences, the older men with whom they shared the bed were selfish, only seeking their satisfaction and they made them feel “used”, sorry for them, they don't know that there is another kind side of the coin!
I apologize in advance if I offended any feminists, but we are here for fun and we don't want to be "rescued" from the "patriarchy", since, we love it!
Surely you already knew some of the mentioned data, and some did not, like us, we wanted to verify by means of an express survey and we found that indeed, some of the "myths" are true; women almost always, not all, look for a male protection figure and feel very comfortable with it, they allow themselves to be consented to and enjoy the advantages that an older man brings, they do not feel the need to compete or demonstrate that The fact that “women are the weaker sex”, rather, that term has been eradicated for a long time, even though feminism is scandalously spoken of today, girls show that women can also use their strength to achieve what they want and that it does not represent weakness, but cunning and simple and mere, fun
I emphasize that, not all people think the same, thinking varies greatly in each one, but the coincidences in certain aspects, which can calculate in a handful of people and conclude that the trend is this or that side. If you have already participated in the sugary world, you have possibly felt identified with the above, and in that case, we would love to know your experience. But if you have not yet experienced such a relationship, go for it! You lose nothing, I bet you will win more than you expected.