By: Sandra April 8, 2020
Confessions Of A Former Sugar Baby In Mexico
Hello my name is Araceli, I am almost 30 years old today, I already have a family, I got married 3 years ago and I am pregnant, I am living my life as I wanted, but behind all this happiness is a story that very few know, And today I want to tell you about it, hoping that in some way you feel identified with me and I can inspire you to not give up and get what you are looking for in any way, do not close yourself to the possibilities.
The story that I am going to tell you today has to do with my past as a Sugar Baby and how it was that I met the one who until today has been the only man that served me as a Sugar Daddy in life.
I was 19 years old when I met Raul, he was a very discreet gentleman, he was not the classic “voyeur” man that shous up quickly, he, on the contrary, was a polite gentleman with everyone; I as a waitress in a very busy restaurant-bar in Vallarta, so one week I had to work during the day and the following week I worked at night, I really like that job, I met new people and I lived with my coworkers, it was the ideal job for any young person, and as in this environment, there was never a lack of the “loyal and generous” client who left a good tip, that was Raul.
Believe me that at this time it was not that I wanted to find a Sugar Daddy, much less, but luck was on my side and this just happened.
He seemed disciplined and methodical, he normally came every day at 3 in the afternoon, he was a military doctor, so he seemed to be a cold and rigid person of habit, bit one you got to know him, you would come to find out that he was kind and very warm, he knew how to adapt to any person for any conversation, he was very appreciated by the waiters and of course, especially by me; whenever he came to eat he asked me for me if he didn’t see me. And on many occasions, he went to the place at night, when I was working night shift, he didn’t stay long, it almost seemed that he was only stopping by to see me and nothing else, then I discovered that, indeed, that was the goal, to see me.
He carried this routine for 1 year, of course he didn’t plan it, but as he told me afterwards, he had found an interest in me that was out of the ordinary, at first, he was just my favorite customer and I his favorite waitress, and there was no mutual attraction or anything like it, that feeling came along with time, as in any relationship of two people that fall for each other. He would always talk to me a little when he got the chance, when there wasn’t too many customers and I remember he would always motivate me to continue studying, the kind of advice you expect from an older man who is already living off his professional career and can tell you about success because he leads by example. I always considered him as an exemplary figure, it is not that I judged Sugar daddies but perhaps at that time I did not imagine that this serious man had an interest in these types of relationships that are usually controversial.
One day he told me about a vacancy in his medical office, he needed a receptionist for the weekends and as he knew, I worked only from Monday to Friday, so for that reason he offered me the job, I loved the idea, especially since he was a trustworthy person; The following weekend I showed up at the office for the job, there was hardly any movement, as I recall. Later, he told me that he felt a certain attraction for me, but nothing serious, but when I started working for him this feeling increased.
The Day He Proposed to me to become his Sugar Baby was definitely not that he was expected, but it seemed that he already had everything planned.
One Saturday, as we left the office, he invited me out to eat, he took me to a very elegant and nice restaurant, that had gourmet food, his pretensions didn’t cross my mind, while there he told me that he would like to try a casual relationship with me, I was a little perplexed , because I did not expect it from him, it didn’t bother me, I was just surprised because I had another image of him, but he is a man after all and I tried to process the information quickly. What a bomb he dropped on me at that moment!
He told me that he was not looking for a formal relationship or anything compromising, just spending time with each other in exchange he would support me with my school expenses and other things that I needed. The idea was to go out with him from time to time to eat, or events such as medical conventions and things like that which doctors frequent, even to go on a trip with him. The scenes quickly came to my mind, I thought that an extra income would not hurt me in exchange for accompanying this man on some occasions, I lived alone with my mother and had to work to pay for my studies and on many occasions, I had economic deficiencies and It was difficult for me at times, so the idea did not seem bad, besides, I was single at that time.
I said yes that I would accept, but only because he was a well-known person and I trusted him, that I didn't want him to think that I was used to do things like that. And so, we enjoyed that first outing together; I admit that it was very strange, and it took me a little time to assimilate the proposal that afternoon, he caught me off guard! As a good inexperienced Sugar Baby, I had my doubts, doubts that this friendly Sugar Daddy always gladly clarified for me. - Will we have sex or is it not necessary to come to that? -. He told me that he wanted that to happen spontaneously, when we both wanted it, he didn't want to force things and that be a reason for me to get away from him, hearing him say that made me feel very calm.
Beyond Our Sugar Daddy / Sugar Baby Relationship
We both continued to act normal, as always, nothing changed, and I felt wonderfully comfortable with our agreement, everything continued as usual, I kept working for him and he continued to go to the restaurant, nothing had changed in the most absolute. But we were discreet from the beginning, to avoid negative comments from acquaintances, especially from my co-workers. I told my mother everything because I always had a lot of confidence in her and she was not a closed-minded mother, she always advised me to be cautious and only believe half of what men say, (ah! My beautiful mommy, always so wise). And Raúl greeted my mother many times, it was not a formal relationship, but it was not a secret either, at least only our closest ones knew about it, there was no need to divulge our situation.
I have incredibly beautiful memories of our relationship, or whatever it was that we lived together. At his side I learned many important things in life. It never seemed a “sacrifice” to be with him, although he was not a handsome young man or anything near that, he was a mature and intelligent man and he was neither ugly or handsome really, but he had a lot of personality and self-confidence and personally, I fell in love with that, all his qualities enchanted me. I felt very safe with him, I felt that the things I wanted for my life were all possible, and that his support was there, protecting me, that feeling is one of the best things that the Sweet World of Sugar Daddies can offer you.
“Sugar Babies” When Dating Mature Men Becomes Quite Profitable Business
From my Sugary relationship I obtained incredibly good economic benefits and I must not deny that, but now that I can see this experience with much more maturity than what you can have at your 19 or 20’s, I realize that this man, this Sugar Daddy, represented more than just money for me, I have unbelievably beautiful memories with him. He was an important figure for the rest of my life because he supported me with my university, and I finished my professional career, and the most valuable thing was the teachings of life. He always had important advice to give, but he didn't seem like a substitute dad, he always knew how to treat me with respect and make me feel important, and not because of the fact that I was younger than him did he ever denounce me. He always treated me as his equal and filled me with self-confidence. Applause to these types of Sugar Daddies! And I hope they continue to do so.
We also traveled a lot throughout Mexico, I remember many beautiful anecdotes from those trips. As, for example, when we went to Playa del Carmen, it was a summer with deliciously sunny days worthy of the beach, we spent much of the day on the beach, walking and eating accompanied by the sea breeze, watching the sunsets, enjoying the heat and the atmosphere that was breathed, a vacation atmosphere where everyone is happy away from their boring and daily lives, and among those happy ones, was us. At the beginning of this story, I told you that I am married and waiting for my baby, right? Well yes, it was genuinely nice to have shared my time with him, we lasted a few years together, but then he had to leave the city, he took an opportunity for a better life and left. But we continued in contact for some time, until I met my current husband; I remember that Raúl always told me not to close myself to love, that it was not a good idea that by being with him I would miss out on the opportunity to know the love and stability of a formal couple, that if that great love came during my relationship with him not to deny me, just let him know and he would understand, and that contrary to getting angry, he would be happy for me because I deserved to be happy with someone and have a normal relationship, and that's how it was.
In my history as a Sugar Baby, I only had one Sugar Daddy, but one was more than enough to fulfill all my goals.
He was my only Sugar Daddy, but today that I remember my past with him, I realize that if I had not agreed to this type of relationship, my current story would very possibly be different; I consider that I matured a lot by his side and learned that something important in a relationship, is the freedom of each one, that it is not necessary to go to the extremes to be happy but to know how to live the here and now and that it is necessary to have goals in life and feel inspired to achieve them. He certainly left his mark in my life. Besides that, I managed to finish my degree with his support, and I enjoyed that part of my young life traveling and getting to know new places and cultures, Raúl completely revolutionized my world, I will always be grateful for him and I will always feel a special love for him.