By: Valeria Sugar April 8, 2020
Confessions Of A Sugar Baby
What Do Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby Mean?
Being Sugar Baby, for me at least, is a seduction game, getting any kind of benefit from the Sugar Daddies makes me feel wanted and that excites me, I love it! It is a game that I want to continue playing for a long time to come, my name is Irina, I am 29 years old, one more month and I’ll be 30. Come with me to discover some confessions of a Sugar Baby.
Due to my parent’s profession, who are biologists, and to top it off they nominate themselves as hippies, I’ve been a globetrotter from a very young age, I lived my childhood traveling and learning a curious and light philosophy of life.
I was home schooled, but my social life has always been remarkably busy. I am a very opened minded woman; I am not scared of anything! I seek satisfaction and pleasure in every decision and event of my life. I am a professor of Psychology at a private university in Mexico City and I have my office where I give couples therapy.
I feel encouraged to share part of my private life with perfect strangers today, because I came to believe that people are capable of learning from the experiences of others, so if mine helps you in any way, take notes!
Long Before I Became a Sugar Baby
My first sexual relationship was at age 16, I was not in love with the boy, I remember that I was always a bit precocious, so in that sense, I had been flirting with the idea of losing my "virginity" for at least a year, I wanted to rush and be "a big girl"
It was with a boy from school, the most handsome of all, I have never been ugly, so it was not difficult for me to find a prospect for that specific task, I remember that I took control of the situation, I felt fulfilled in that new area of my life when I had conquered. Above all, for having done it the way I had imagined and with whom I wanted to do it. It was like an achievement for me, that's how I felt, as an empowered woman, and it became somewhat addictive after that first encounter.
It was a year of honing my skills in bed, all with this same boy from my first time, when I turned 18, I was already a little woman, a little expert and could easily get intimate with a man that I liked, someone older than me.
First Flirtations With the World of Sugar Daddies
When I met my first "SUGAR DADDY". He was 40 years old; he was an acquaintance of my father named Fabio, the two families used to meet frequently and coexist.
I was not very enthusiastic about those meetings, in fact, they seemed boring to me, but in on one occasion, something caught my attention from this man named Fabio. In one of those meetings, we coincided in the bathroom by accident, I was changing my blouse because I had spilled something over it, and he accidentally entered, I had forgotten to put the lock on.
The man was deeply sorry for the incident, but I was attracted by the idea that something else could have happened, I started to play a dangerous game that made me feel the adrenaline rush through my veins. He became very nervous, when I flirted with him or insinuated stronger things, but it was not the nerves of rejection or disavowal, it was rather the nerves of "I want, but I can’t", it was like "no, but yes".
And poor him could not resist from my charms for long, and so we began an adventure that only lasted a few months, due to the fear of being surprised by our loved ones, the fact of being part of the same social circle made it complicated. He of course was a married and family man.
While I was with Fabio, I learned the good things about sporadic relationships, I have good memories of ours and, above all, the experiences together that would later serve me in the relationships that would come after him. I remember that he gave me money every time we saw each other or surprised me with little gifts.
Once I Tasted the Honeys of Sugary Relationships, Traditional Relationships Failed to Catch My Attention
I had a relationship that lasted a short time, and that's when I realized that formal relationships are not to my liking, I hate to feel tied and committed, I like to feel free to go where I want, with whoever I want, and whenever I want. Aside from being with an older man who changes you in many ways, I couldn't go back and settle for any kid my age.
As usual, we moved from town, this time my parents took an investigation in Spain for a few months, and you can only imagine what I didn’t do, while I was there!
Sugar Baby in Spain
There were 3 months of intense night parties, new friends, and trips around the area. I met Juan Pablo, a handsome 51-year-old engineer, super gentlemanly, who melted you. He was an extremely irresistible man, owner of a night club that I frequented during my stay.
Manolo did not give me money, but he paid for everything I had at his bar on my night stays and besides that, the sex with him was incredible, without forgetting that he took me on his yacht a full weekend, we had nothing to lose those two days and it was a wonderful experience. He couldn't help but think that the next mature man would always be better than the last.
Spain and its incredible lifestyle became the perfect place to be Sugar Baby, it is most definitely a place that leaves a great taste in anyone's mouth.
Paradise for Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies!
The Experience That I’ve Gained As a Sugar Baby is Something That I Wouldn't Change For Anything
This "loving" lifestyle is the one I have chosen, I can't imagine it being it any other way, and as you can deduce, I don't have the slightest need to receive their monetary help, being a Sugar Baby is more than that to me, having a Sugar Daddy who cares and wants to satisfy all your needs and whims is a very satisfactory experience.
I have learned a lot from each of my conquests. I have not felt the need to get married or live with anyone, I think that would be like cutting the wings of a bird that has always been free and is suddenly encaged, that would be death for me. I just want to continue cruising in the freedom that I already know and with which I feel amazingly comfortable.
Today I have the courage to tell you about my experience, even if it’s anonymous, I want you to know that all of us have the right to be what we want to be, that we do not have to limit ourselves by what others have to say. Each one owns his life and is free to choose, no one belongs to anyone.
I am a professional woman, single, responsible, free, a happy woman and I don’t feel tied or committed to any relationship or person. I have made my decisions, good or bad, but they have made me the quality of a woman that I am, I know how to respect the well-being of others and I think that has a lot to say, I am a Sugar Baby just for the pleasure of being one (for the fun of it) and guess what? It feels great! What's your story dear Sugar Baby?